I’m having a hard time finding Jesus in my life… am I doing something wrong?

Maybe start with a list of words that describe Jesus for you.  Is He compassionate or harsh?  Generous or reserved?  Kind or mean?  Know that in Scriptures, He is all of these things and more.  He is compassionate to those who are hurting or excluded.  He is harsh to those who hurt and exclude.  He is generous to those in need and reserved with those in power.  He is kind to children and a little mean to the religious leaders who keep failing to understand.  Where we will find Jesus will relate to where we find ourselves.  And then He will call us to see Him in more and more places and people.